Confidence Is Built by Failing. Full Stop.
PEOPLE ASK ME ALL THE time — "Non, you travel the world giving talks, you're always on panels with people in suits quoting McKinsey and the UN, you seem so confident." "How did you get there? Did you read some life-changing book? Did you pr…
Finding Flow: Unlocking Joy and Efficiency in Work
PEOPLE OFTEN ASK ME, "NON, how do you get so much done? How are you so effective at work?" I laugh because, first of all, I don't always get stuff done. I often find myself in chaotic moments especially a day before any deadlines. However, …
Free Rides to Harvard, MIT, Oxford: How I Never Paid a Penny for My Education
PEOPLE LOOK AT MY RESUME — MIT, Oxford, Harvard — and they ask, "How the hell did you pull that off, Non?" They expect me to say I had rich parents, a fat bank account, or that I was some child prodigy from Thailand who got a golden ticket …
Daniel Kahneman
PEOPLE KEEP ASKING ME. RECOMMEND a book. I ask how many I can pick. They say just one. I always go for Thinking, Fast and Slow. By Daniel Kahneman. Great psychologist. Changed my life. I didn't read it first. I listened to the audio. I got …
A Return to This Blog and Simulation Theory
SO I HAVEN'T DONE MUCH with this blog since 2019. I had to start a new job. It required I spend most of my time learning new things. So I didn't write much. Especially not reflective stuff. Like I used throughout this blog. Now we're in the…
Expo 2020 Dubai - An Ultimate Guide Part 1
A VIEW OF EXPO 2020 Dubai from the Saudi Arabia Pavilion. Photos in this piece are courtesy of Dr Passakon Prathombutr unless otherwise noted. Every five years, nations gather in one location for a six-month event. The host city invites the…
On Design Thinking Part 7 -- Notes from My Personal Experience Working for a Top
I WAS HIRED AS AN anthropologist to 'observe people' at one of the most famous design firms — here's what I have learned. Google Photos app is always surprisingly good in showing me 'what happened on this day 5 years ago?' Today, popping up…
'Kodawari' or an Attempt to Reach Perfection: A Quick Read about Japanese
REMARKS: THIS POST IS SORT of a repost of a previously published article. I rewrote it a bit to make it shorter and more concise. I couldn't believe how long-winded and off-the-topic the original article was. It was so hard to read! I hope …
Some Truly Useful Japanese Concepts
IF NOT BECAUSE OF COVID-19, I would have travelled to Japan again for 16 years in a row. In some years, I travelled to Japan more often than once. My love for Japan went all the way back to when I was about three-year-old, reading my very f…
Minimalist Benefits of Working from Home
I HAVE BEEN A MINIMALIST for a few years now. From travelling the world with 7 kgs (15.43 lbs) to spending less than 10 % of my income each month by living like a monk, I have tried to push the boundary of de-consumerism. I genuinely believ…
An Old Machine and Work Ethics
I CAN TELL YOU NOW that typing on a laptop isn't fun anymore after having experienced the joy of typing on a fully mechanical keyboard. Wow, I really enjoyed typing! A Minimalist's Using Typewriters in
2 Years of Traveling the World with Just 1 Backpack: An 'Accidental Minimalist' Tale
IT'S ONE OF THOSE MOMENTS in life where you'd say "enough is enough," leave a full-time job, and travel the world. That moment happened to me a few years ago. It's the time of uncertainty. Upon getting my doctorate at mid-30s, having nowher…
The Fact, Key and Action to Help You Work on the Better Version of Yourself
"I AM SO GLAD TO have met this version of you." These 11 words have gotten me thinking long and hard about how I have come from being no use to no one to a person that someone is glad to know today. It's true: I would not want to know any o…
How I Got Out of the Darkest Time
FIRST, I CAN'T TELL YOU how happy I am to be alive right now to write this post. A couple of years ago, my mental condition went from good to bad within weeks, and from bad to worst within days. I had no reason to live. Long story short, I …
When Things Get Rough, Do This
I RECENTLY RECEIVED AN EMAIL from a former colleague. This colleague witnessed firsthand my personal disaster. "She still thinks I am alive" was my first thought upon seeing her email. Well, at the time, I was that close to physical end my …
What I've Learned Lately
"WE MAY HAVE SUFFERED MORE in our own imagination than in reality." (This quote is credited to the great political figure Seneca); We were born without anything, not even the clothes we love. So, anything that we've got in life today, no ma…
Why We Should "Stop Trying" instead of "Trying Our Best"
DEMANDING NOTHING IN RETURN FOR his kindness, the sage eventually obtains everything; The sage does not accumulate things, Yet the more he gives to others, the more he has himself. Having given to others, he is richer still. Laozi from Dao …
On Design Culture Part 1 (of Many More Parts to Come)
WHAT'S DESIGN? MANY PEOPLE HAVE asked me this question, and it's not easy at all to actually come up with just one absolute and definite answer. In fact, as I am going to be teaching a course with a title roughly translated as "design cultu…
On Insecurity (and How to Get Rid of It)
HAPPY NEW YEAR! WELL, IT'S another first of January -- the new year. We should all think about what we'd like to do this year, what changes we would like to make, and whatever goals we would like to achieve. All of this makes perfect sense.…
Some Podcasts I Simply Can't Recommend Enough
I HAVE RECEIVED SOME WONDERFUL words of gratitude and thoughtful feedback on the 100th post (on the 44 books that changed my life). So, in this post, I want to turn the spot light to some of the podcasts that have the same impact on my life…
How to Deal with Unpleasant Events
A BEAUTIFUL GIRL IN THE village was pregnant. Her angry parents demanded to know who was the father. At first resistant to confess, the anxious and embarrassed girl finally pointed to Hakuin Ekaku, the Zen master whom everyone previously re…
The 44 Books that Change My Life
LET ME SAVOR THE MOMENT a bit. What moment? Come on, you know. It's the moment of reaching the "100th post milestone" that, by the way if you haven't already known from the name of this blog, I had set for myself at the onset of this post. …
Why Reading News Isn't Good for You
YES, I ONLY LEARNED ABOUT the Thai soccer team in the cave after they'd gotten out of the cave... Shame on me, right? Not so fast! I also only learn about a lot of things, not through reading news, but through words of mouth from family mem…
What I Know for Sure
IT'S GETTING THERE. I AM 3 days away from the 100th day -- hooray. I can't wait. It would be wonderful to finally reach the milestone I set for myself over three years ago. I obviously overestimated my ability to be both consistent and pers…
Problematizing Time
ONCE UPON A TIME, A wise man I spoke to. "There's no problem; there's only time," said he. Little did I understand. Years passed, and soon I rephrased: A brush called time paints a canvas we call "space." Time intensifies the slate. "Space,…
In Praise of Self-Improvement
AS I MENTIONED, I WANT the last 5 posts to be about the "self-improvement values" that I have held dearly. That said, I have not always been able to practice them. There had certainly been times when I let my immediate emotion, gut feeling,…
In Praise of Incrementalism
I AM JUST FIVE DAYS -- five days -- away from the golden "100 days" mark. For those who don't know why that mark is important, please return to the first page of this blog. I have been asked by a dozen of friends, "What are you going to do …
On Freedom
FREEDOM IS ONE OF THE most difficult topics. We all want freedom, but... Freedom from what? Apparently, freedom, at least in the society in which we are living today, doesn't mean you can do whatever you want. That would be like living in w…
On Jealously (I Forgive and Forget)
HOW MANY PEOPLE DOES IT take to make your life into a spiritual practice? Never mind if your partner will not cooperate. Sanity — consciousness — can only come into this world through you. You do not need to wait for the world to become san…
On Design Thinking Part 11: In Praise of Checklists
I WAS LISTENING TO ONE of my favorite podcast NPR The Hidden Brain the other day. The newest episode was a re-run of one of its most practical episodes. It's on the use of a checklist. Yes, a boring checklist. Here're my simple morning chec…
On Design Thinking Part 10: The One Simple Trick to Re-Designing Your Life
HOORAY! I HAVE REACHED THE ninetieth post! Thrilled. Ten more and then I'll reach "100 days of writing." Wow. I don't know what to say. It was supposed to be a three-and-a-half month writing project. Now, since the first post it has been mo…
The Saddest Sonnet
HAVE YOU EVER FELT DISGUSTED by your own existence? I have. My weakest days were the ten months before my obtaining a doctoral degree in 2016. No, living alone by myself per se did not make me weak. The feeling lack of support, instead, was…
On Design Thinking Part 9: Designing Your Life
I HAVE MOVED THE PREVIOUS Day 88 post "Only If I Can Do These 12 Things" to the main page of this blog and changed its name to "Principles" since these are, essentially, the principles by which we should aim to live our life. Now, in this p…
The Anti-Fragile Manifesto
LIVING IN THE WORLD AS hard and chaotic as it is today, it's not enough just to be flexible and resilience -- we need to be "anti-fragile." Borrowing this (I think, beautifully expressive) term from the thinker Nassim Nicholas Taleb, the au…
On Design Thinking Part 8: Dealing with Criticisms
I WAS ABOUT TO GO to bed when the idea of this blog post came to mind! Actually, someone once told me about what we can physically do to arrive at a creative idea: Drink (and smell) coffee, take a cold shower, exercise, and play some intens…
On Design Thinking Part 7: The Four Noble Truth
A FEW MONTHS BACK DURING a Facebook Live Interview with a news correspondent Dr Nattha Komolvadhin on the topic of design thinking, I had alluded to the similarities between notion of problem-finding and solving of design thinking and of Bu…
On Design Thinking Part 6: Stoicism
IF I WERE TO WRITE my own list of " what I should have known before turning 20," the top of the list would have been Stoicism. In fact, it might have been the only thing on the list -- as the philosophers Zeno, Musonius Rufus, Seneca, Epict…
The Power of Now
WHEN MY FATHER PASSED AWAY in 2010 -- the black swan event of my life -- I was left with nothing much for which to live. I was not just devastated but also purposeless. All I felt was deep depression and that perhaps I could try to end all …
On Design Thinking Part 4: Design, Fast and Slow
AS THE TITLE SUGGESTS, I am going to talk about design in terms of "heuristics" and "general probability." Wait, wait, wait, don't close this browser yet. Those two terms may seem like jargon but basically what they mean is rule of thumb (f…
On Design Thinking Part 2: It All Began in Kraków
SO, LET ME TELL YOU a bit about the background of this design thinking series. For most of 2016 and 2017, I had many opportunities to conduct workshops on this very topic, which I found to be speaking directly to the question that I had bee…
Gossiping, or, by Definition, a Crime Against Humanity
I WAS INITIALLY PLANNING TO continue the writing of my newest series on design thinking, of which the first part had been written as the Day 76 post. I, however, have been engaging in many meaningful discussions with friends, colleagues, an…
12 Rules for Life
A CONFESSION: I FORGOT TO continue writing this post! Many thanks to a big fan of this blog Bhawara for reminding me that I still owe her (and everyone of you) the last 6 rules. Well, but the fact that I also skipped Day 75 and wrote a new …
On Design Thinking Part 1: The Gist
(PLEASE SKIP THIS PARAGRAPH TO the next if you are a first-time visitor to this blog. This first paragraph is going to be all about my confessions and apologies to the die-hard readers, especially those who're kind enough to subscribe to it…
What I Learned Getting Stuck at an Airport for 12 Hours
THIS MIGHT BE A BIT of a surprise to many: How I eventually return to writing this blog again. The truth: I have always been wanting to return to write this blog. It's just that for the past two years since my last post, I have been living …
Six Basic Human Needs
WHILE I WAS ON THE treadmill yesterday, I listened to Tony Robbins' podcast episode called "Six Basic Human Needs." For those who don't know who he is, Tony Robbins is one of the world's most famous inspirational speakers, business, and per…
The Power of Logic (How to Change the World Part 2)
I HAVE TWO STORIES TO tell. All of which speak to one central theme: The power of logic is limitless. Let's begin. One: Hot Pot One afternoon I checked myself into a restaurant serving buffet lunch. It's a traditional-styled Chinese hot-pot…
How to Change the World Part 1
I KNOW. I KNOW. IT'S been a while since my last post. Apologies for those who may have been waiting for a new post. It hasn't been easy moving from one place to the other, leaving an old job for a new job, and so on. But I am back! Although…
A Nonism Dictionary
GENERAL ABSTENTION FROM ACTIVITIES AND substances regarded as damaging to one's health or well-being. The above is a dictionary definition of the term "non-ism." I, in fact, did not know about the existence of this term until a few years ba…
On Disappointment
WHY, LATELY, I HAVE FELT so beaten up? It's almost as though a number of people have sandbagged me and then put me in a bag before throwing me into the river with a large piece of steel attached to it to make sure that no way I would escape…
On a Failed Relationship
IT'S GOOD TO BE BACK on my blog, writing again. Thank you all for all of the kind words of congratulation. It's good to have a Ph.D., although I wish I hadn't done it. It's good, still, to have accomplished something in life no matter how t…
I Wish I Had Never Done a PhD
" EDUCATION IS AN ADMIRABLE thing, but it is well to remember from time to time that nothing that is worth knowing can be taught." – Oscar Wilde "To live is not to breathe but to act." Jean-Jacques Rousseau This is an afterthought, which, s…
Paradise; or, Reflecting on the Urban
I WENT TO THE WOODS because I wished to live deliberately, to front only the essential facts of life, and see if I could not learn what it had to teach, and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived. I did not wish to live what…
Home is Where the Heart is
LIVE FROM LOS ANGELES AND Boston. I just got back to the US less than 4 hours ago. About 8 hours ago, I was sitting at a bar inside the American Airlines terminal at the Los Angeles International Airport (LAX) enjoying my Californian-styled…
The 60th Day Anniversary
WHEN YOUNG PEOPLE "DISCOVER PHILOSOPHY" today, it usually means either that they have come upon writings that call into question what they thought they knew, or that they suddenly feel awake to new modes of perceiving and interacting with t…
What Brought Me to China
HOW DID A THAI NATIONAL attending a university in the US end up spending three-third of his life, and counting, conducting research on China? I do not remember how many times I had answered this question. Again and again -- almost every tim…
On the Experience of Writing about Morality
I HAVE BEEN ASKED, A few times, about my experience of writing about morality. In my last post, I have laid out the blueprint of my reasoning for moving from writing a longer blog post to a shorter series of aphorisms, or, as defined by a d…
On the Economy of Words
LATELY, I HAVE BEEN WRITING many short aphorisms. Almost everyday, in fact, as though my brain can't stop thinking about what makes life worth living. The more I read, the more I write. The more I experience, the more I come up with thought…
New Year's Resolution
I WAS PLANNING TO WRITE this post more than a month ago, but somehow I totally forgot about it and did not have a chance to look at my little notebook where I put down quite clearly by hand "2016 New Year's Resolution -- Day 52." Well. I mi…
On Writing Well
THANKS TO THE RESPONSES FROM the students at the Global Studies Program at Thammasat University in Bangkok where I had the honor of giving a talk on the topic All About Writing (and the Art of Doing it Well), I had the opportunity to sit do…
Giving up the Urban Life
THIS MIGHT SOUND LIKE ME rambling, but as the Spring Festival (Chinese New Year) is about to depart, and the people are coming back to the city again, I want to write about how much I like Shanghai when it's so empty like this when the memo…
Writing by the Yangtze
I KNOW, I KNOW, I haven't written anything since January. In fact, I haven't written anything since the beginning of January. So, it's been more than a month now that this blog has been dormant. That's not my intention at all. Some of you m…
It's a Non-Issue
I FORGOT COMPLETELY TO MENTION how happy I was that I got to Day 50 in my last post -- that's halfway through the goal of one hundred days that I had set for myself at the beginning a few months back. It's been, of course, more than 50 days…
On Sex Part 2.5 (Q & A)
IT FELT AS THOUGH I had dropped a bomb yesterday. After the last post was up, I have been receiving a number of questions about how I come to grips with the core idea of sex that seems to be quite different from the conventional belief. So,…
On Sex: Part 2
HAVING SPENT THE LAST THREE days of my life in Japan, I can't help but to feel overwhelmed. A society that on the surface seems both socially orderly and culturally conservative is in fact very liberating when it comes to sex. In the area i…
Things I Can't Live Without
AS ALWAYS, SINCE I AM a master of tangent (sounds like a title that can become a reality TV show, doesn't it?) I didn't get to talk about the 16 things that I cannot live without which was what I originally set out to do in my last post. So…
Days 47: On My Relationship with Objects
I GUESS IT WOULD BE unfair to write about what I don't have without writing about the opposite side of the spectrum: What I have and (hopefully) will always have. But let me begin with telling you how I spent my last 24 hours here in Tokyo.…
16 Things I Never Have
HERE I AM, WAITING AT the boarding area for my very first "non-business" trip in years. How am I feeling? Mixed: my feeling is caught between great and weird. It's great because I don't have to prepare a presentation, or a transcript for a …
On Bad Arguments
DID ANY OF YOU REALIZE that I had skipped Day 42? Anyway, that was what happened, so I am writing this post right now to make up for the poor Day 42 that I unintentionally skipped and nobody cared enough to inform me (sob)(sob). Alright, th…
On Bad Faith
THERE IS ONLY ONE REALLY serious philosophical problem and that is suicide. Deciding whether or not life is worth living is to answer the fundamental question in philosophy. All other questions follow from that. This was Albert Camus (1913–…
On Loneliness
WATCHING ONLINE A NEW TELEVISION drama Manhattan, a story about the famous atomic bomb research program led by J. Robert Oppenheimer between 1942–45 that gathered US best scientists together to produce the nuclear weapon to fight the Nazi G…
All About Nana: Part 2
EVERY TIME I TOOK A train through Hailun Road Station, I feel as though I cannot breath. There's something inside that propels my emotion toward bitterness, like being thrown out of the top of the building. The feeling of free-falling, bein…
On Sex: Part 1
TRY TO IMAGINE A SOCIETY in which there is no marriage. One where men and women take multiple sex partners in their teens, 20s and 30s, and never settle down with one. Imagine a society without husbands or fathers — one that has no word for…
My Butterfly Dream
ONCE UPON A TIME, ZHUANGZI dreamed that he was a butterfly, flying about enjoying itself. It did not know that it was Zhuangzi. Suddenly he awoke, and veritably was Zhuangzi again. He did not know whether it was Zhuangzi dreaming that he wa…
Of the Standard of Beauty
SAM (AN INTENTIONAL GENDER-NEUTRAL PSEUDONYM) was visiting our city for a few days, so my friend and I took Sam out to dinner. A conversation about weight came up during our conversation about food. "I am blessed to be able to eat a lot and…
On Professionalism
SINCE I HAVE MOVED INTO my new place, where there's a cable TV, I have been sitting in front of my flat screen television everyday, watching shows after shows on my new favorite TV channel, NHK World TV ( stands for Nippon Hs Kykai or Japan…
Why Modesty is Bad for the Society
I AM NOT A PARTICULARLY modest person. In fact, for those who know me, they'd probably also know that I am not modest at all. I like to feel good about my accomplishment (if there's any), and I would like to be rewarded for what I have done…
The Kind of Love That Will Last
**SPOILER ALERT. THIS POST IS the last installment of the "Why I Give Up Love" trilogy. I'd have to warn you, this blog post is not a conventionally rosy-eyed blog post about "how to love." Far from it. This is a blog post about how NOT to …
I Was Just Lucky
IN MY YOUNGER AND MORE vulnerable years my father gave me some advice that I've been turning over in my mind ever since. "Whenever you feel like criticizing any one," he told me, "just remember that all the people in this world haven't had …
Cicero, On Aging
I FIND FOUR REASONS WHY old age appears to be unhappy: first, that it withdraws us from active pursuits; second, that it makes the body weaker; third, that it deprives us of almost all physical pleasures; and, fourth, that it is not far rem…
On Death
I BORROW THE TITLE OF this post from Montaigne, one of my favorite philosophers who is up there, for me, with Rousseau, Thoreau, and the Stoics. I have been thinking about death lately since the death of my father, which is more than five y…
My Love Is Gone When I like How She Looks More Than Who She Is
I ONLY CARE ABOUT HOW I see myself, and not about how others see me. I have never been so clear on this before. In fact, I never understand why many people care so much about how they look, especially in photos. Around me there're so many p…
On Riding a Train
I REALIZED, JUST NOW, THAT in my last post I ardently violated my own rule by writing more than 500 words. Well. There wasn't a rule or anything but I did mention that I would like to write fewer words ("fewer" by the way is correct here be…
A "Bad Faith" Bicycle Technician I met?
ONE EXAMPLE OF "BAD FAITH" that [Jean-Paul Sartre] gives is that of a waiter who does his best to conform to everything that a waiter should be. For Sartre, the waiter's exaggerated behavior is evidence that he is play-acting at being a wai…
On Being a Rousseaurian Stoic Existentialist
FIRST, I HAVE TO START thinking more before I write in order write fewer words! I have written more than 3,000 words in last two posts, which are a lot of words considering how far behind I still am in terms of my dissertation. I mean, if I…
On Duty
LAST YEAR, A FEW PEOPLE asked me how I dealt with the difficulty of my fieldwork. It wasn't just the frugal living condition, but also the crashes of self-interest in the face of contemporary capitalism that I had to deal with on a daily ba…
On My Coffee Addiction
I AM A COFFEE ADDICT. Ever since I was introduced to coffee I have never bee able to live a full day without it. Well, I can, but I wouldn't want to. Thailand in the 80s and 90s where I grew up, coffee had yet to be a big part of Thai socie…
On Posting on Social Media
WOULD I BE OKAY IF this is my last post? That's the ultimate maxim. Before I post anything, I examine this question. No. I am not particularly feeling morbid right now or anything. It's a fact that every time I post anything, I make sure th…
How Do I Want to Get Old
THE ARCHITECT LOUIS KAHN ONCE said that good architecture "age beautifully." And that's it -- that's how I would like to get old. The ideas about what life is are very diverse. Religious people believe that life has a much larger purpose, s…
On Being a Skeptic
TODAY MARKS THE TWO WEEKS benchmark of this blog, which is great, because the last time I wrote a blog I didn't get past even the first week benchmark. Today, I want to reflect on a comment about which I have been concerned lately: "You are…
We're Weirder Than We Think
IT IS CLEAR TO ME that being a passionately mad man is more reasonable than being a boring man of rationality. In short, I'd rather let my passion drive me to hell, than get a free ride to heaven from reason. I'd like to continue to reflect…
Emotion Versus Reason (Continued)
IT WAS A GOOD FEELING beyond my capacity to explain it in words to wake up on my bed at home here in Bangkok. The weather was far from perfect, I must admit. That said, home's always home, and there is a good reason for most people to "feel…
On Writing Fieldnotes
THE LAST THING I WANT to turn this blog into is a platform for me to complain about what I don't like about Shanghai, and sometimes, the world at large. The temptation is always high. For instance, I got home deadly tired today. I even slep…
Three Years In Shanghai
THE MASTER SAID: AT FIFTEEN I set my heart upon learning. At thirty, I had planted my feet firm upon the ground. At forty, I no longer suffered from perplexities. At fifty, I knew what were the biddings of Heaven. At sixty, I heard them wit…
Why I (Give Up) Love: Part 2
EXCESSIVE EXERCISING IN THE PAST few days really got me tired. I couldn't get up at 6am like I used to. This morning, for instance, I was kept in bed by the fatigue from yesterday until 10am. However, that wasn't a problem, as I never liked…
Why I (Give Up) Love, Part 1
IN EVERYONE'S LIFE, THERE MUST be that moment that you feel you could live forever. Imagining a middle- age person looking at his/her own photos in the 20s and mutter to his/her ownself, "that was such a good time, and it's all gone -- all …
Tradition: What's Good For?
ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. BEFORE I GET to why I said so (and yes, I deliberately borrow it from Edwin Starr's song called War ), let me talk about me and my bike. I was on my bike today again after taking a long afternoon nap between 3 - 5pm. I w…
Because We Are Living in the Best of All Possible Worlds, Therefore I Bike (and Vice Versa)
"A gentleman shouldn't go on and on about what he does to stay fit. At least that's how I see it." In Haruki Murakami. WHAT I TALK ABOUT WHEN I Talk About Running The original title of this post was What I Think About When I Think About Bik…
Writing Stream of Consciousness
TODAY, I SPENT A FEW minutes after lunch thinking about my career. While writing a chapter of my own dissertation, I got distracted by a visit from someone I knew, and then got completely distracted by that person's question about me and my…
What does writing do to me
WRITING, FIRST OF ALL, IS something one can only do it alone. You can get someone to help you with proof reading, editing, and revising what you have written. But when you write, you write it alone. No original idea worth spreading, recitin…
Confidence Is Built by Failing. Full Stop.
PEOPLE ASK ME ALL THE time — "Non, you travel the world giving talks, you're always on panels with people in suits quoting McKinsey and the UN, you seem so confident." "How did you get there? Did you read some life-changing book? Did you pr…
Daniel Kahneman
PEOPLE KEEP ASKING ME. RECOMMEND a book. I ask how many I can pick. They say just one. I always go for Thinking, Fast and Slow. By Daniel Kahneman. Great psychologist. Changed my life. I didn't read it first. I listened to the audio. I got …
On Design Thinking Part 7 -- Notes from My Personal Experience Working for a Top
I WAS HIRED AS AN anthropologist to 'observe people' at one of the most famous design firms — here's what I have learned. Google Photos app is always surprisingly good in showing me 'what happened on this day 5 years ago?' Today, popping up…
2 Years of Traveling the World with Just 1 Backpack: An 'Accidental Minimalist' Tale
IT'S ONE OF THOSE MOMENTS in life where you'd say "enough is enough," leave a full-time job, and travel the world. That moment happened to me a few years ago. It's the time of uncertainty. Upon getting my doctorate at mid-30s, having nowher…
When Things Get Rough, Do This
I RECENTLY RECEIVED AN EMAIL from a former colleague. This colleague witnessed firsthand my personal disaster. "She still thinks I am alive" was my first thought upon seeing her email. Well, at the time, I was that close to physical end my …
On Design Culture Part 1 (of Many More Parts to Come)
WHAT'S DESIGN? MANY PEOPLE HAVE asked me this question, and it's not easy at all to actually come up with just one absolute and definite answer. In fact, as I am going to be teaching a course with a title roughly translated as "design cultu…
Why Reading News Isn't Good for You
YES, I ONLY LEARNED ABOUT the Thai soccer team in the cave after they'd gotten out of the cave... Shame on me, right? Not so fast! I also only learn about a lot of things, not through reading news, but through words of mouth from family mem…
In Praise of Self-Improvement
AS I MENTIONED, I WANT the last 5 posts to be about the "self-improvement values" that I have held dearly. That said, I have not always been able to practice them. There had certainly been times when I let my immediate emotion, gut feeling,…
In Praise of Incrementalism
I AM JUST FIVE DAYS -- five days -- away from the golden "100 days" mark. For those who don't know why that mark is important, please return to the first page of this blog. I have been asked by a dozen of friends, "What are you going to do …
On Design Thinking Part 10: The One Simple Trick to Re-Designing Your Life
HOORAY! I HAVE REACHED THE ninetieth post! Thrilled. Ten more and then I'll reach "100 days of writing." Wow. I don't know what to say. It was supposed to be a three-and-a-half month writing project. Now, since the first post it has been mo…
The Anti-Fragile Manifesto
LIVING IN THE WORLD AS hard and chaotic as it is today, it's not enough just to be flexible and resilience -- we need to be "anti-fragile." Borrowing this (I think, beautifully expressive) term from the thinker Nassim Nicholas Taleb, the au…
On Design Thinking Part 8: Dealing with Criticisms
I WAS ABOUT TO GO to bed when the idea of this blog post came to mind! Actually, someone once told me about what we can physically do to arrive at a creative idea: Drink (and smell) coffee, take a cold shower, exercise, and play some intens…
On Design Thinking Part 7: The Four Noble Truth
A FEW MONTHS BACK DURING a Facebook Live Interview with a news correspondent Dr Nattha Komolvadhin on the topic of design thinking, I had alluded to the similarities between notion of problem-finding and solving of design thinking and of Bu…
On Design Thinking Part 6: Stoicism
IF I WERE TO WRITE my own list of " what I should have known before turning 20," the top of the list would have been Stoicism. In fact, it might have been the only thing on the list -- as the philosophers Zeno, Musonius Rufus, Seneca, Epict…
On Design Thinking Part 4: Design, Fast and Slow
AS THE TITLE SUGGESTS, I am going to talk about design in terms of "heuristics" and "general probability." Wait, wait, wait, don't close this browser yet. Those two terms may seem like jargon but basically what they mean is rule of thumb (f…
On Design Thinking Part 2: It All Began in Kraków
SO, LET ME TELL YOU a bit about the background of this design thinking series. For most of 2016 and 2017, I had many opportunities to conduct workshops on this very topic, which I found to be speaking directly to the question that I had bee…
Gossiping, or, by Definition, a Crime Against Humanity
I WAS INITIALLY PLANNING TO continue the writing of my newest series on design thinking, of which the first part had been written as the Day 76 post. I, however, have been engaging in many meaningful discussions with friends, colleagues, an…
On Design Thinking Part 1: The Gist
(PLEASE SKIP THIS PARAGRAPH TO the next if you are a first-time visitor to this blog. This first paragraph is going to be all about my confessions and apologies to the die-hard readers, especially those who're kind enough to subscribe to it…
What I Learned Getting Stuck at an Airport for 12 Hours
THIS MIGHT BE A BIT of a surprise to many: How I eventually return to writing this blog again. The truth: I have always been wanting to return to write this blog. It's just that for the past two years since my last post, I have been living …
A Nonism Dictionary
GENERAL ABSTENTION FROM ACTIVITIES AND substances regarded as damaging to one's health or well-being. The above is a dictionary definition of the term "non-ism." I, in fact, did not know about the existence of this term until a few years ba…
On Disappointment
WHY, LATELY, I HAVE FELT so beaten up? It's almost as though a number of people have sandbagged me and then put me in a bag before throwing me into the river with a large piece of steel attached to it to make sure that no way I would escape…
On the Economy of Words
LATELY, I HAVE BEEN WRITING many short aphorisms. Almost everyday, in fact, as though my brain can't stop thinking about what makes life worth living. The more I read, the more I write. The more I experience, the more I come up with thought…
On Writing Well
THANKS TO THE RESPONSES FROM the students at the Global Studies Program at Thammasat University in Bangkok where I had the honor of giving a talk on the topic All About Writing (and the Art of Doing it Well), I had the opportunity to sit do…
On Sex Part 2.5 (Q & A)
IT FELT AS THOUGH I had dropped a bomb yesterday. After the last post was up, I have been receiving a number of questions about how I come to grips with the core idea of sex that seems to be quite different from the conventional belief. So,…
On Sex: Part 2
HAVING SPENT THE LAST THREE days of my life in Japan, I can't help but to feel overwhelmed. A society that on the surface seems both socially orderly and culturally conservative is in fact very liberating when it comes to sex. In the area i…
On Bad Faith
THERE IS ONLY ONE REALLY serious philosophical problem and that is suicide. Deciding whether or not life is worth living is to answer the fundamental question in philosophy. All other questions follow from that. This was Albert Camus (1913–…
On Sex: Part 1
TRY TO IMAGINE A SOCIETY in which there is no marriage. One where men and women take multiple sex partners in their teens, 20s and 30s, and never settle down with one. Imagine a society without husbands or fathers — one that has no word for…
Of the Standard of Beauty
SAM (AN INTENTIONAL GENDER-NEUTRAL PSEUDONYM) was visiting our city for a few days, so my friend and I took Sam out to dinner. A conversation about weight came up during our conversation about food. "I am blessed to be able to eat a lot and…
On Professionalism
SINCE I HAVE MOVED INTO my new place, where there's a cable TV, I have been sitting in front of my flat screen television everyday, watching shows after shows on my new favorite TV channel, NHK World TV ( stands for Nippon Hs Kykai or Japan…
Why Modesty is Bad for the Society
I AM NOT A PARTICULARLY modest person. In fact, for those who know me, they'd probably also know that I am not modest at all. I like to feel good about my accomplishment (if there's any), and I would like to be rewarded for what I have done…
I Was Just Lucky
IN MY YOUNGER AND MORE vulnerable years my father gave me some advice that I've been turning over in my mind ever since. "Whenever you feel like criticizing any one," he told me, "just remember that all the people in this world haven't had …
Cicero, On Aging
I FIND FOUR REASONS WHY old age appears to be unhappy: first, that it withdraws us from active pursuits; second, that it makes the body weaker; third, that it deprives us of almost all physical pleasures; and, fourth, that it is not far rem…
On Death
I BORROW THE TITLE OF this post from Montaigne, one of my favorite philosophers who is up there, for me, with Rousseau, Thoreau, and the Stoics. I have been thinking about death lately since the death of my father, which is more than five y…
On Riding a Train
I REALIZED, JUST NOW, THAT in my last post I ardently violated my own rule by writing more than 500 words. Well. There wasn't a rule or anything but I did mention that I would like to write fewer words ("fewer" by the way is correct here be…
A "Bad Faith" Bicycle Technician I met?
ONE EXAMPLE OF "BAD FAITH" that [Jean-Paul Sartre] gives is that of a waiter who does his best to conform to everything that a waiter should be. For Sartre, the waiter's exaggerated behavior is evidence that he is play-acting at being a wai…
On Being a Rousseaurian Stoic Existentialist
FIRST, I HAVE TO START thinking more before I write in order write fewer words! I have written more than 3,000 words in last two posts, which are a lot of words considering how far behind I still am in terms of my dissertation. I mean, if I…
On Duty
LAST YEAR, A FEW PEOPLE asked me how I dealt with the difficulty of my fieldwork. It wasn't just the frugal living condition, but also the crashes of self-interest in the face of contemporary capitalism that I had to deal with on a daily ba…
On Posting on Social Media
WOULD I BE OKAY IF this is my last post? That's the ultimate maxim. Before I post anything, I examine this question. No. I am not particularly feeling morbid right now or anything. It's a fact that every time I post anything, I make sure th…
On Being a Skeptic
TODAY MARKS THE TWO WEEKS benchmark of this blog, which is great, because the last time I wrote a blog I didn't get past even the first week benchmark. Today, I want to reflect on a comment about which I have been concerned lately: "You are…
Why I (Give Up) Love: Part 2
EXCESSIVE EXERCISING IN THE PAST few days really got me tired. I couldn't get up at 6am like I used to. This morning, for instance, I was kept in bed by the fatigue from yesterday until 10am. However, that wasn't a problem, as I never liked…
Writing Stream of Consciousness
TODAY, I SPENT A FEW minutes after lunch thinking about my career. While writing a chapter of my own dissertation, I got distracted by a visit from someone I knew, and then got completely distracted by that person's question about me and my…
What does writing do to me
WRITING, FIRST OF ALL, IS something one can only do it alone. You can get someone to help you with proof reading, editing, and revising what you have written. But when you write, you write it alone. No original idea worth spreading, recitin…
On a Failed Relationship
IT'S GOOD TO BE BACK on my blog, writing again. Thank you all for all of the kind words of congratulation. It's good to have a Ph.D., although I wish I hadn't done it. It's good, still, to have accomplished something in life no matter how t…
I Wish I Had Never Done a PhD
" EDUCATION IS AN ADMIRABLE thing, but it is well to remember from time to time that nothing that is worth knowing can be taught." – Oscar Wilde "To live is not to breathe but to act." Jean-Jacques Rousseau This is an afterthought, which, s…
Paradise; or, Reflecting on the Urban
I WENT TO THE WOODS because I wished to live deliberately, to front only the essential facts of life, and see if I could not learn what it had to teach, and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived. I did not wish to live what…
Home is Where the Heart is
LIVE FROM LOS ANGELES AND Boston. I just got back to the US less than 4 hours ago. About 8 hours ago, I was sitting at a bar inside the American Airlines terminal at the Los Angeles International Airport (LAX) enjoying my Californian-styled…
The 60th Day Anniversary
WHEN YOUNG PEOPLE "DISCOVER PHILOSOPHY" today, it usually means either that they have come upon writings that call into question what they thought they knew, or that they suddenly feel awake to new modes of perceiving and interacting with t…
What Brought Me to China
HOW DID A THAI NATIONAL attending a university in the US end up spending three-third of his life, and counting, conducting research on China? I do not remember how many times I had answered this question. Again and again -- almost every tim…
On the Experience of Writing about Morality
I HAVE BEEN ASKED, A few times, about my experience of writing about morality. In my last post, I have laid out the blueprint of my reasoning for moving from writing a longer blog post to a shorter series of aphorisms, or, as defined by a d…
On the Economy of Words
LATELY, I HAVE BEEN WRITING many short aphorisms. Almost everyday, in fact, as though my brain can't stop thinking about what makes life worth living. The more I read, the more I write. The more I experience, the more I come up with thought…
New Year's Resolution
I WAS PLANNING TO WRITE this post more than a month ago, but somehow I totally forgot about it and did not have a chance to look at my little notebook where I put down quite clearly by hand "2016 New Year's Resolution -- Day 52." Well. I mi…
On Writing Well
THANKS TO THE RESPONSES FROM the students at the Global Studies Program at Thammasat University in Bangkok where I had the honor of giving a talk on the topic All About Writing (and the Art of Doing it Well), I had the opportunity to sit do…
Giving up the Urban Life
THIS MIGHT SOUND LIKE ME rambling, but as the Spring Festival (Chinese New Year) is about to depart, and the people are coming back to the city again, I want to write about how much I like Shanghai when it's so empty like this when the memo…
Writing by the Yangtze
I KNOW, I KNOW, I haven't written anything since January. In fact, I haven't written anything since the beginning of January. So, it's been more than a month now that this blog has been dormant. That's not my intention at all. Some of you m…
It's a Non-Issue
I FORGOT COMPLETELY TO MENTION how happy I was that I got to Day 50 in my last post -- that's halfway through the goal of one hundred days that I had set for myself at the beginning a few months back. It's been, of course, more than 50 days…
On Sex Part 2.5 (Q & A)
IT FELT AS THOUGH I had dropped a bomb yesterday. After the last post was up, I have been receiving a number of questions about how I come to grips with the core idea of sex that seems to be quite different from the conventional belief. So,…
On Sex: Part 2
HAVING SPENT THE LAST THREE days of my life in Japan, I can't help but to feel overwhelmed. A society that on the surface seems both socially orderly and culturally conservative is in fact very liberating when it comes to sex. In the area i…
Things I Can't Live Without
AS ALWAYS, SINCE I AM a master of tangent (sounds like a title that can become a reality TV show, doesn't it?) I didn't get to talk about the 16 things that I cannot live without which was what I originally set out to do in my last post. So…
Days 47: On My Relationship with Objects
I GUESS IT WOULD BE unfair to write about what I don't have without writing about the opposite side of the spectrum: What I have and (hopefully) will always have. But let me begin with telling you how I spent my last 24 hours here in Tokyo.…
16 Things I Never Have
HERE I AM, WAITING AT the boarding area for my very first "non-business" trip in years. How am I feeling? Mixed: my feeling is caught between great and weird. It's great because I don't have to prepare a presentation, or a transcript for a …
On Bad Arguments
DID ANY OF YOU REALIZE that I had skipped Day 42? Anyway, that was what happened, so I am writing this post right now to make up for the poor Day 42 that I unintentionally skipped and nobody cared enough to inform me (sob)(sob). Alright, th…
On Bad Faith
THERE IS ONLY ONE REALLY serious philosophical problem and that is suicide. Deciding whether or not life is worth living is to answer the fundamental question in philosophy. All other questions follow from that. This was Albert Camus (1913–…
On Loneliness
WATCHING ONLINE A NEW TELEVISION drama Manhattan, a story about the famous atomic bomb research program led by J. Robert Oppenheimer between 1942–45 that gathered US best scientists together to produce the nuclear weapon to fight the Nazi G…
All About Nana: Part 2
EVERY TIME I TOOK A train through Hailun Road Station, I feel as though I cannot breath. There's something inside that propels my emotion toward bitterness, like being thrown out of the top of the building. The feeling of free-falling, bein…
On Sex: Part 1
TRY TO IMAGINE A SOCIETY in which there is no marriage. One where men and women take multiple sex partners in their teens, 20s and 30s, and never settle down with one. Imagine a society without husbands or fathers — one that has no word for…
My Butterfly Dream
ONCE UPON A TIME, ZHUANGZI dreamed that he was a butterfly, flying about enjoying itself. It did not know that it was Zhuangzi. Suddenly he awoke, and veritably was Zhuangzi again. He did not know whether it was Zhuangzi dreaming that he wa…
Of the Standard of Beauty
SAM (AN INTENTIONAL GENDER-NEUTRAL PSEUDONYM) was visiting our city for a few days, so my friend and I took Sam out to dinner. A conversation about weight came up during our conversation about food. "I am blessed to be able to eat a lot and…
On Professionalism
SINCE I HAVE MOVED INTO my new place, where there's a cable TV, I have been sitting in front of my flat screen television everyday, watching shows after shows on my new favorite TV channel, NHK World TV ( stands for Nippon Hs Kykai or Japan…
Why Modesty is Bad for the Society
I AM NOT A PARTICULARLY modest person. In fact, for those who know me, they'd probably also know that I am not modest at all. I like to feel good about my accomplishment (if there's any), and I would like to be rewarded for what I have done…
The Kind of Love That Will Last
**SPOILER ALERT. THIS POST IS the last installment of the "Why I Give Up Love" trilogy. I'd have to warn you, this blog post is not a conventionally rosy-eyed blog post about "how to love." Far from it. This is a blog post about how NOT to …
I Was Just Lucky
IN MY YOUNGER AND MORE vulnerable years my father gave me some advice that I've been turning over in my mind ever since. "Whenever you feel like criticizing any one," he told me, "just remember that all the people in this world haven't had …
Cicero, On Aging
I FIND FOUR REASONS WHY old age appears to be unhappy: first, that it withdraws us from active pursuits; second, that it makes the body weaker; third, that it deprives us of almost all physical pleasures; and, fourth, that it is not far rem…
On Death
I BORROW THE TITLE OF this post from Montaigne, one of my favorite philosophers who is up there, for me, with Rousseau, Thoreau, and the Stoics. I have been thinking about death lately since the death of my father, which is more than five y…
My Love Is Gone When I like How She Looks More Than Who She Is
I ONLY CARE ABOUT HOW I see myself, and not about how others see me. I have never been so clear on this before. In fact, I never understand why many people care so much about how they look, especially in photos. Around me there're so many p…
On Riding a Train
I REALIZED, JUST NOW, THAT in my last post I ardently violated my own rule by writing more than 500 words. Well. There wasn't a rule or anything but I did mention that I would like to write fewer words ("fewer" by the way is correct here be…
A "Bad Faith" Bicycle Technician I met?
ONE EXAMPLE OF "BAD FAITH" that [Jean-Paul Sartre] gives is that of a waiter who does his best to conform to everything that a waiter should be. For Sartre, the waiter's exaggerated behavior is evidence that he is play-acting at being a wai…
On Being a Rousseaurian Stoic Existentialist
FIRST, I HAVE TO START thinking more before I write in order write fewer words! I have written more than 3,000 words in last two posts, which are a lot of words considering how far behind I still am in terms of my dissertation. I mean, if I…
On Duty
LAST YEAR, A FEW PEOPLE asked me how I dealt with the difficulty of my fieldwork. It wasn't just the frugal living condition, but also the crashes of self-interest in the face of contemporary capitalism that I had to deal with on a daily ba…
On My Coffee Addiction
I AM A COFFEE ADDICT. Ever since I was introduced to coffee I have never bee able to live a full day without it. Well, I can, but I wouldn't want to. Thailand in the 80s and 90s where I grew up, coffee had yet to be a big part of Thai socie…
On Posting on Social Media
WOULD I BE OKAY IF this is my last post? That's the ultimate maxim. Before I post anything, I examine this question. No. I am not particularly feeling morbid right now or anything. It's a fact that every time I post anything, I make sure th…
How Do I Want to Get Old
THE ARCHITECT LOUIS KAHN ONCE said that good architecture "age beautifully." And that's it -- that's how I would like to get old. The ideas about what life is are very diverse. Religious people believe that life has a much larger purpose, s…
On Being a Skeptic
TODAY MARKS THE TWO WEEKS benchmark of this blog, which is great, because the last time I wrote a blog I didn't get past even the first week benchmark. Today, I want to reflect on a comment about which I have been concerned lately: "You are…
We're Weirder Than We Think
IT IS CLEAR TO ME that being a passionately mad man is more reasonable than being a boring man of rationality. In short, I'd rather let my passion drive me to hell, than get a free ride to heaven from reason. I'd like to continue to reflect…
Emotion Versus Reason (Continued)
IT WAS A GOOD FEELING beyond my capacity to explain it in words to wake up on my bed at home here in Bangkok. The weather was far from perfect, I must admit. That said, home's always home, and there is a good reason for most people to "feel…
On Writing Fieldnotes
THE LAST THING I WANT to turn this blog into is a platform for me to complain about what I don't like about Shanghai, and sometimes, the world at large. The temptation is always high. For instance, I got home deadly tired today. I even slep…
Three Years In Shanghai
THE MASTER SAID: AT FIFTEEN I set my heart upon learning. At thirty, I had planted my feet firm upon the ground. At forty, I no longer suffered from perplexities. At fifty, I knew what were the biddings of Heaven. At sixty, I heard them wit…
Why I (Give Up) Love: Part 2
EXCESSIVE EXERCISING IN THE PAST few days really got me tired. I couldn't get up at 6am like I used to. This morning, for instance, I was kept in bed by the fatigue from yesterday until 10am. However, that wasn't a problem, as I never liked…
Why I (Give Up) Love, Part 1
IN EVERYONE'S LIFE, THERE MUST be that moment that you feel you could live forever. Imagining a middle- age person looking at his/her own photos in the 20s and mutter to his/her ownself, "that was such a good time, and it's all gone -- all …
Tradition: What's Good For?
ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. BEFORE I GET to why I said so (and yes, I deliberately borrow it from Edwin Starr's song called War ), let me talk about me and my bike. I was on my bike today again after taking a long afternoon nap between 3 - 5pm. I w…
Because We Are Living in the Best of All Possible Worlds, Therefore I Bike (and Vice Versa)
"A gentleman shouldn't go on and on about what he does to stay fit. At least that's how I see it." In Haruki Murakami. WHAT I TALK ABOUT WHEN I Talk About Running The original title of this post was What I Think About When I Think About Bik…
Writing Stream of Consciousness
TODAY, I SPENT A FEW minutes after lunch thinking about my career. While writing a chapter of my own dissertation, I got distracted by a visit from someone I knew, and then got completely distracted by that person's question about me and my…
What does writing do to me
WRITING, FIRST OF ALL, IS something one can only do it alone. You can get someone to help you with proof reading, editing, and revising what you have written. But when you write, you write it alone. No original idea worth spreading, recitin…
Confidence Is Built by Failing. Full Stop.
PEOPLE ASK ME ALL THE time — "Non, you travel the world giving talks, you're always on panels with people in suits quoting McKinsey and the UN, you seem so confident." "How did you get there? Did you read some life-changing book? Did you pr…
Finding Flow: Unlocking Joy and Efficiency in Work
PEOPLE OFTEN ASK ME, "NON, how do you get so much done? How are you so effective at work?" I laugh because, first of all, I don't always get stuff done. I often find myself in chaotic moments especially a day before any deadlines. However, …
Free Rides to Harvard, MIT, Oxford: How I Never Paid a Penny for My Education
PEOPLE LOOK AT MY RESUME — MIT, Oxford, Harvard — and they ask, "How the hell did you pull that off, Non?" They expect me to say I had rich parents, a fat bank account, or that I was some child prodigy from Thailand who got a golden ticket …
Daniel Kahneman
PEOPLE KEEP ASKING ME. RECOMMEND a book. I ask how many I can pick. They say just one. I always go for Thinking, Fast and Slow. By Daniel Kahneman. Great psychologist. Changed my life. I didn't read it first. I listened to the audio. I got …
A Return to This Blog and Simulation Theory
SO I HAVEN'T DONE MUCH with this blog since 2019. I had to start a new job. It required I spend most of my time learning new things. So I didn't write much. Especially not reflective stuff. Like I used throughout this blog. Now we're in the…
Expo 2020 Dubai - An Ultimate Guide Part 1
A VIEW OF EXPO 2020 Dubai from the Saudi Arabia Pavilion. Photos in this piece are courtesy of Dr Passakon Prathombutr unless otherwise noted. Every five years, nations gather in one location for a six-month event. The host city invites the…
On Design Thinking Part 7 -- Notes from My Personal Experience Working for a Top
I WAS HIRED AS AN anthropologist to 'observe people' at one of the most famous design firms — here's what I have learned. Google Photos app is always surprisingly good in showing me 'what happened on this day 5 years ago?' Today, popping up…
'Kodawari' or an Attempt to Reach Perfection: A Quick Read about Japanese
REMARKS: THIS POST IS SORT of a repost of a previously published article. I rewrote it a bit to make it shorter and more concise. I couldn't believe how long-winded and off-the-topic the original article was. It was so hard to read! I hope …
Some Truly Useful Japanese Concepts
IF NOT BECAUSE OF COVID-19, I would have travelled to Japan again for 16 years in a row. In some years, I travelled to Japan more often than once. My love for Japan went all the way back to when I was about three-year-old, reading my very f…
Minimalist Benefits of Working from Home
I HAVE BEEN A MINIMALIST for a few years now. From travelling the world with 7 kgs (15.43 lbs) to spending less than 10 % of my income each month by living like a monk, I have tried to push the boundary of de-consumerism. I genuinely believ…
An Old Machine and Work Ethics
I CAN TELL YOU NOW that typing on a laptop isn't fun anymore after having experienced the joy of typing on a fully mechanical keyboard. Wow, I really enjoyed typing! A Minimalist's Using Typewriters in
2 Years of Traveling the World with Just 1 Backpack: An 'Accidental Minimalist' Tale
IT'S ONE OF THOSE MOMENTS in life where you'd say "enough is enough," leave a full-time job, and travel the world. That moment happened to me a few years ago. It's the time of uncertainty. Upon getting my doctorate at mid-30s, having nowher…
The Fact, Key and Action to Help You Work on the Better Version of Yourself
"I AM SO GLAD TO have met this version of you." These 11 words have gotten me thinking long and hard about how I have come from being no use to no one to a person that someone is glad to know today. It's true: I would not want to know any o…
How I Got Out of the Darkest Time
FIRST, I CAN'T TELL YOU how happy I am to be alive right now to write this post. A couple of years ago, my mental condition went from good to bad within weeks, and from bad to worst within days. I had no reason to live. Long story short, I …
When Things Get Rough, Do This
I RECENTLY RECEIVED AN EMAIL from a former colleague. This colleague witnessed firsthand my personal disaster. "She still thinks I am alive" was my first thought upon seeing her email. Well, at the time, I was that close to physical end my …
What I've Learned Lately
"WE MAY HAVE SUFFERED MORE in our own imagination than in reality." (This quote is credited to the great political figure Seneca); We were born without anything, not even the clothes we love. So, anything that we've got in life today, no ma…
Why We Should "Stop Trying" instead of "Trying Our Best"
DEMANDING NOTHING IN RETURN FOR his kindness, the sage eventually obtains everything; The sage does not accumulate things, Yet the more he gives to others, the more he has himself. Having given to others, he is richer still. Laozi from Dao …
On Design Culture Part 1 (of Many More Parts to Come)
WHAT'S DESIGN? MANY PEOPLE HAVE asked me this question, and it's not easy at all to actually come up with just one absolute and definite answer. In fact, as I am going to be teaching a course with a title roughly translated as "design cultu…
On Insecurity (and How to Get Rid of It)
HAPPY NEW YEAR! WELL, IT'S another first of January -- the new year. We should all think about what we'd like to do this year, what changes we would like to make, and whatever goals we would like to achieve. All of this makes perfect sense.…
Some Podcasts I Simply Can't Recommend Enough
I HAVE RECEIVED SOME WONDERFUL words of gratitude and thoughtful feedback on the 100th post (on the 44 books that changed my life). So, in this post, I want to turn the spot light to some of the podcasts that have the same impact on my life…
How to Deal with Unpleasant Events
A BEAUTIFUL GIRL IN THE village was pregnant. Her angry parents demanded to know who was the father. At first resistant to confess, the anxious and embarrassed girl finally pointed to Hakuin Ekaku, the Zen master whom everyone previously re…
The 44 Books that Change My Life
LET ME SAVOR THE MOMENT a bit. What moment? Come on, you know. It's the moment of reaching the "100th post milestone" that, by the way if you haven't already known from the name of this blog, I had set for myself at the onset of this post. …
Why Reading News Isn't Good for You
YES, I ONLY LEARNED ABOUT the Thai soccer team in the cave after they'd gotten out of the cave... Shame on me, right? Not so fast! I also only learn about a lot of things, not through reading news, but through words of mouth from family mem…
What I Know for Sure
IT'S GETTING THERE. I AM 3 days away from the 100th day -- hooray. I can't wait. It would be wonderful to finally reach the milestone I set for myself over three years ago. I obviously overestimated my ability to be both consistent and pers…
Problematizing Time
ONCE UPON A TIME, A wise man I spoke to. "There's no problem; there's only time," said he. Little did I understand. Years passed, and soon I rephrased: A brush called time paints a canvas we call "space." Time intensifies the slate. "Space,…
In Praise of Self-Improvement
AS I MENTIONED, I WANT the last 5 posts to be about the "self-improvement values" that I have held dearly. That said, I have not always been able to practice them. There had certainly been times when I let my immediate emotion, gut feeling,…
In Praise of Incrementalism
I AM JUST FIVE DAYS -- five days -- away from the golden "100 days" mark. For those who don't know why that mark is important, please return to the first page of this blog. I have been asked by a dozen of friends, "What are you going to do …
On Freedom
FREEDOM IS ONE OF THE most difficult topics. We all want freedom, but... Freedom from what? Apparently, freedom, at least in the society in which we are living today, doesn't mean you can do whatever you want. That would be like living in w…
On Jealously (I Forgive and Forget)
HOW MANY PEOPLE DOES IT take to make your life into a spiritual practice? Never mind if your partner will not cooperate. Sanity — consciousness — can only come into this world through you. You do not need to wait for the world to become san…
On Design Thinking Part 11: In Praise of Checklists
I WAS LISTENING TO ONE of my favorite podcast NPR The Hidden Brain the other day. The newest episode was a re-run of one of its most practical episodes. It's on the use of a checklist. Yes, a boring checklist. Here're my simple morning chec…
On Design Thinking Part 10: The One Simple Trick to Re-Designing Your Life
HOORAY! I HAVE REACHED THE ninetieth post! Thrilled. Ten more and then I'll reach "100 days of writing." Wow. I don't know what to say. It was supposed to be a three-and-a-half month writing project. Now, since the first post it has been mo…
The Saddest Sonnet
HAVE YOU EVER FELT DISGUSTED by your own existence? I have. My weakest days were the ten months before my obtaining a doctoral degree in 2016. No, living alone by myself per se did not make me weak. The feeling lack of support, instead, was…
On Design Thinking Part 9: Designing Your Life
I HAVE MOVED THE PREVIOUS Day 88 post "Only If I Can Do These 12 Things" to the main page of this blog and changed its name to "Principles" since these are, essentially, the principles by which we should aim to live our life. Now, in this p…
The Anti-Fragile Manifesto
LIVING IN THE WORLD AS hard and chaotic as it is today, it's not enough just to be flexible and resilience -- we need to be "anti-fragile." Borrowing this (I think, beautifully expressive) term from the thinker Nassim Nicholas Taleb, the au…
On Design Thinking Part 8: Dealing with Criticisms
I WAS ABOUT TO GO to bed when the idea of this blog post came to mind! Actually, someone once told me about what we can physically do to arrive at a creative idea: Drink (and smell) coffee, take a cold shower, exercise, and play some intens…
On Design Thinking Part 7: The Four Noble Truth
A FEW MONTHS BACK DURING a Facebook Live Interview with a news correspondent Dr Nattha Komolvadhin on the topic of design thinking, I had alluded to the similarities between notion of problem-finding and solving of design thinking and of Bu…
On Design Thinking Part 6: Stoicism
IF I WERE TO WRITE my own list of " what I should have known before turning 20," the top of the list would have been Stoicism. In fact, it might have been the only thing on the list -- as the philosophers Zeno, Musonius Rufus, Seneca, Epict…
The Power of Now
WHEN MY FATHER PASSED AWAY in 2010 -- the black swan event of my life -- I was left with nothing much for which to live. I was not just devastated but also purposeless. All I felt was deep depression and that perhaps I could try to end all …
On Design Thinking Part 4: Design, Fast and Slow
AS THE TITLE SUGGESTS, I am going to talk about design in terms of "heuristics" and "general probability." Wait, wait, wait, don't close this browser yet. Those two terms may seem like jargon but basically what they mean is rule of thumb (f…
On Design Thinking Part 2: It All Began in Kraków
SO, LET ME TELL YOU a bit about the background of this design thinking series. For most of 2016 and 2017, I had many opportunities to conduct workshops on this very topic, which I found to be speaking directly to the question that I had bee…
Gossiping, or, by Definition, a Crime Against Humanity
I WAS INITIALLY PLANNING TO continue the writing of my newest series on design thinking, of which the first part had been written as the Day 76 post. I, however, have been engaging in many meaningful discussions with friends, colleagues, an…
12 Rules for Life
A CONFESSION: I FORGOT TO continue writing this post! Many thanks to a big fan of this blog Bhawara for reminding me that I still owe her (and everyone of you) the last 6 rules. Well, but the fact that I also skipped Day 75 and wrote a new …
On Design Thinking Part 1: The Gist
(PLEASE SKIP THIS PARAGRAPH TO the next if you are a first-time visitor to this blog. This first paragraph is going to be all about my confessions and apologies to the die-hard readers, especially those who're kind enough to subscribe to it…
What I Learned Getting Stuck at an Airport for 12 Hours
THIS MIGHT BE A BIT of a surprise to many: How I eventually return to writing this blog again. The truth: I have always been wanting to return to write this blog. It's just that for the past two years since my last post, I have been living …
Six Basic Human Needs
WHILE I WAS ON THE treadmill yesterday, I listened to Tony Robbins' podcast episode called "Six Basic Human Needs." For those who don't know who he is, Tony Robbins is one of the world's most famous inspirational speakers, business, and per…
The Power of Logic (How to Change the World Part 2)
I HAVE TWO STORIES TO tell. All of which speak to one central theme: The power of logic is limitless. Let's begin. One: Hot Pot One afternoon I checked myself into a restaurant serving buffet lunch. It's a traditional-styled Chinese hot-pot…
How to Change the World Part 1
I KNOW. I KNOW. IT'S been a while since my last post. Apologies for those who may have been waiting for a new post. It hasn't been easy moving from one place to the other, leaving an old job for a new job, and so on. But I am back! Although…
A Nonism Dictionary
GENERAL ABSTENTION FROM ACTIVITIES AND substances regarded as damaging to one's health or well-being. The above is a dictionary definition of the term "non-ism." I, in fact, did not know about the existence of this term until a few years ba…
On Disappointment
WHY, LATELY, I HAVE FELT so beaten up? It's almost as though a number of people have sandbagged me and then put me in a bag before throwing me into the river with a large piece of steel attached to it to make sure that no way I would escape…